4 Ways To Quiet Intrusive Thoughts, From A Psychologist 

Recurrent intrusive thoughts spark feelings of extreme overload. Thinking the same negative thing over and over can distract you from getting tasks done and take you out of a present, positive moment. 

While you may not be able to control every thought that arrives in your mind, you can use coping strategies to interrupt mental dialogues that are not helpful. Here are licensed psychologist Ayanna Abrams, Psy.D.'s top tips for stopping intrusive thoughts in their tracks.

This one is for the busy bees out there. Rather than spending your day splitting time between two or three tasks at once, try monotasking—or focusing your attention on just one action item—for a change. 

"This helps your brain practice focus, and commitment, and makes it more likely that you will perform the task properly or learn it at a deeper level because your attention is not distracted," Abrams says. 

She adds, "Busy people are overstimulated." This feeling can quickly turn into mental chaos and prove difficult to escape once it starts. 

To minimize external distractions while still getting work done, set aside some tasks you'll devote full attention to during the day. If you need to go in a separate room or close a few tabs on your computer to do so, go for it. 

While it's safe to say everyone experiences intrusive thoughts at one point or another, some folks are especially prone to thought loops—including those with anxiety.

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Circling thoughts often have to do with something that's coming up, be it an important life milestone, a work meeting, or an intense conversation with a loved one, etc. Rather than letting your mind run with what-if questions on future events, you can remind yourself of the facts and reflect on your past successes.

Abrams recommends asking yourself questions like: "What is important about this event that our anxiety wants us to pay attention to?" You can also remind yourself that you've gone through tough events before (even if not this one). Or, make a short list of three things you can control while you're at this event. These can include:

Finally, some people experience intrusive thoughts related to self-image and body image, which can be particularly hard to break. When these come up, Abrams recommends trying your best to respond with positivity, rather than letting the negativity fester. 

"Respond internally or jot down some notes that are body neutral, body positive, or compassionate," she says. Talking back to those thoughts and reminding yourself that they're not true or helpful will reiterate the notion that they are just thoughts, not reality. 

Over time, this may become easier and your negative thoughts may just begin to slow down. However, it won't be easy at first, so be patient with yourself and view this practice as a marathon, not a sprint. 

Abrams reminds you, "Intrusive thoughts are just that—intrusive and automatic—so they will come and you may not be able to control that, but you can gather some control about how you respond." 

While you may not be able to stop intrusive thoughts from popping up, you can decide how you respond to them. If your negative thoughts are related to stress, try monotasking. If your thought loops are directed toward a future event, remind yourself of past success. For those related to self-image, respond with neutral or positive counterthoughts.

No matter what your intrusive thoughts look like, mindfulness meditation can also help you get them under control. Here's a list of some A+ meditation apps to help you start a new practice or deepen an existing one.